austin_dern (austin_dern) wrote,
austin_dern
austin_dern

But seas between us braid hae roar'd

I've had the chance now to talk with the sister of argon_centaur and to get more information about what's happened. I'm sorry to report that the news we had gotten was correct. He did pass away just before Christmas.

In May he had disappeared from the online world for several weeks in what we thought initially was a side effect of flooding where he lived, and then heard was a stroke, and then learned was a less serious medical crisis. The third report was, it appears, Argon trying to make the news less grim for his friends. He had suffered a stroke, which in collaboration with his diabetes left him not really able to live on his own, which is why he moved up to be with his sister. She believed he was growing comfortable and reasonably happy there, being closer to family, and even getting unexpected surprises like seeing a real-life bear in the driveway.

He'd since suffered a number of problems keeping his blood sugar level in control, and this December he suffered either another stroke or a heart attack. His sister didn't want to know and didn't think it very important to determine.

He passed away while his sister, and family, were visiting other family for the holiday. He was very clear in wanting to let them go without him. When he missed his regular calling-in his sister phoned an emergency medical technician friend, who found him. The friend reported that his death was peaceful.

Argon's sister asks that the news be passed on to his friends' circles. She has almost no idea of his online friends --- she said apart from his best fiend she had ``no idea where his friends were'' --- and their social circles, and has only just been able to go into his rooms and turn on his computer, which she says has not been cooperative.

I did say that trying to gather information had gotten a little strange. This reflects mostly that I was not initially able to get his sister on the phone. The voice mail I left was answered with a voice mail that sounded confused about just what I was asking about. On talking with his sister I think the problem was my local cell phone service being flaky enough that she understood that I was calling but not what I knew, or hoped to know, or just exactly how I knew him, so that she was unsure just what to say back to me. It made for confusing messages until we did understand one another.

Trivia: In 1992, the Merit Geographical Name Server identified 841 United States communities with ``Park'' in their name. Source: The Lawn: A History of an American Obsession, Virginia Scott Jenkins.

Currently Reading: In The Heart Of The Sea: The Tragedy Of The Whaleship Essex, Nathaniel Philbrick.

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